Posts Tagged ‘travel’

Happy New Year

Happy 2010! Coming to you live from Memphis, Tennessee, I figured I would post this while its fresh on my mind. To this point the weekend has been outstanding and we’ve only just begun. Yesterday, we shoved off from Northwest Arkansas, heading for a meet-up with friends in the home of the blues. Thanks to my lovely wife, we had tickets to Wild Side at the Peabody.

The show started up with Al Capone and was headlined by Saving Able. DJ Mark Anderson filled in the gaps and worked as a bit of an MC for the night. Needless to say, the show was killer. We arrived as Al Capone was finishing up… backed up by members of Saving Able in an awesome rap/rock mix. Saving Able played a killer set with all your favorites and a good time was had by all. The turnout was good and the best part was having a little shoulder room at the event. Lines were generally short for the bar and restrooms and the drinks didn’t break the bank. I’d definitely suggest this party to anyone next year. We finished the night at Blues City Cafe tamales and chili. Sooooo good.

Best part of the night? the limo in and out of the event. Since Memphis isn’t known for their cab service, the awesome front desk attendant set us up with a 15 passenger limo at $10/person plus tip. Cabs cost more. We split the ride with a group of Eastern Carolina (spit-spit) fans who are staying across the hall… but they are an entirely different post.

New Years Whrrl Story

Today we slept in (read ‘recovered’) for a bit and headed for Beale Street for lunch and the Liberty Bowl Parade. We had the pleasure of sharing lunch with Collective Bias’s own @BuckDaddy of href=”http://www.buckdaddyblog.com/” target=”_blank”>buckdaddyblog.com at Memphis Institution, B.B. Kings. Ryann had the salmon salad, buck had a burger, and I had my usual, the pork sandwich. Throw in some fried green tomatoes, fried pickles, and a couple of buckets of beer and we were ready for the parade.

B.B. King’s Whrrl Story

The parade was great fun… if you’re completely at ease in freezing weather surrounded by crazed razorback fans. I had a blast, Buck seemed to have a great time and my lovely wife… well, lets just say she’s happy to be curled up under a blanket right now. Since Buck came from Memphis State, I mean, University of Memphis, it didn’t scare him too bad and I actually learned a lot about him as we dodged airborne beads and the random anti-Carolina sentiment.

Liberty Bowl Parade Whrrl Story

Now we’re back in the suite, resting before a night out. The goal for the evening is Rayford’s then grab a couple of hours of sleep and we’re off to the tailgate party. Look out Pirates, we’re coming.

Bring the Groove

escape-the-rut-and-embrace-your-lifeAs most of you know, the past few months have been at best, bedlam. With all the traveling, changing jobs, oh, and that wedding I had, I’m pretty much devoid of any sliver of what I used to do or be. Now the question is how to get back into the groove… or better yet, how do I make a new groove? Lets start there… and yes, I have a plan.

First, stop with all the weekend travel. It’s expensive and exhausting and its sucking up all my fun time. I’ve got a 4-wheeler I haven’t so much as cranked up in over a month, a yard that is about calf-deep in something with little purple flowers, and a garage that has gradually shrank by about 1/3 its size due to what needs to be stored or sold. My truck needs work, the house needs a pressure washing, and my better half I’m sure had a list the length of my arm of updates, upgrades, and general maintenance and repair for me. I need a few weekends at home to catch up.

Second, get organized and find that focus I used to have. This shouldn’t be too hard once step one has been instituted as household policy. Anyone have any pointers on organizing an entire house… scratch that… life? The Mrs. and I joke about picking up the house, shaking everything out the front door and starting over but I don’t think I’ve got enough upper body strength to do it IRL.

Third, learn to say no or change my number. This one is important. Both of us have a lot of friends with different schedules and loads of fun to be had. Once we get the weekend travel out of the way and get organized and focused, I guess we’re going to have to get a day planner, mark only a handful of days as “out” days and stick to it. Either that or hire a personal assistant. Yeah, one that also cleans and does laundry. That’s it! That’s how you make a new groove… You hire a personal assistant.

Anyone interested? Interns?

And the countdown continues…

Sands of TimeTruth be told it feels like it’s speeding up.  We’ve got roughly 28 days until the wedding and we’re both weeded to no end.  We’re getting things ironed out every day but the reality of our timeline is setting in.  There are just a few little things that would be noticeable if we didn’t get to them.  Like the cakes, do you think that anyone would really miss having cake at the wedding?  I mean, we will have booze, isn’t that enough?  No?  Alright, it’s still on the list.

Next we’ve got the issue of music.  This one doesn’t seem like it would take a long time but between work, getting kids fed and into bed and trying to go to the gym every once in a while, we’ve run out of time.  I’m taking the night off from all activities to see if we can’t work on this one a little.  The guy even gave us a form.  It’s just a matter of getting it done.

Next up, home repairs.  Seems we’re going to have a few people over at the house for a few days during the wedding and this means it’s the perfect time to get some minor plumbing issues taken care of… like putting the faucet back on the front bath.  A little while ago it decided to eject itself and I’ve yet to find the right kind of replacement.  Maybe I’ll have more luck tonight at Lowe’s.

Finally, we’ve got the issue of passports.  For those that don’t know, you need a passport these days to get in and, more importantly, out of Mexico.  That requires a birth certificate, driver’s license and a pile of money at your local post office to make a reality.  My experience was a little over $200 and well over 2 hours at the post office.  The good news is that it only took 6 days to get a new passport.  FMT might be pushing the deadline though.  Apparently her birth state is one of those still off the grid for online ordering of replacement certs.  Arkansas One, Connecticut Zero.  Now she’s gone third party to make it happen and it’s taking a bit longer than anticipated.  We’re staying positive though.  It’s going to happen on time. I know it is.

So beyond that, I haven’t really slept in a week or two now from a combination of new job/getting married/everything else but who’s really counting anymore.  I’m looking forward to the wedding as much as I’m looking forward to getting it over with and getting to Mexico.  I know it’s going to be a blast and everyone is going to have a great time… even if we don’t have cake.

Kidding…

Side Note:
This post would typically live on the wedding blog but I’m feeling like my personal blog is getting too business-like.  I want to bring back some of the old Jay stuff.  What do you think? Keep it segregated or bring back the mix? Post your thoughts below! I’m really curious what keeps people coming back.

New beginnings or how I didn’t need sleep anyway.

blogherFor those that don’t already know, I’m leaving J.B. Hunt.  Collective Bias has asked me to be their creative director and you know I can’t pass that one up.  I’ve already begun on some levels and am getting more involved in the start up process every day.  Luckily the guys running the show are giving me all the connections I need to get the resources flowing early so that I can hit the ground at full speed on the 27th of this month.

They’re also including me in this year’s BlogHer after-party called BowlHer.  Look for me with the rest of the Collective Bias group.  I’ll be the loud one.  I preparation, I’ve done some reading:

 http://hormonecoloreddays.blogspot.com/2009/07/10-commandments-of-blogher-success.html

 Enjoy and please post any additional suggestions on surviving an event with 300-400 mom/bloggers for an evening.